Talking and interacting with younger women can be a whole new ball game altogether. There are specific things that women in this age range unconsciously need to experience in order to feel attraction with you. Knowing what these are gives you a competitive advantage over all the other men who don’t know these simple yet effective distinctions.
Women hate awkward moments, such as not knowing what to say, or thinking they misinterpreted the situation or someone’s feelings. Younger women are more likely to hate it even more. If your conversational skills are good, you have topics to discuss with her and ways to transition smoothly from one topic to another. Also, discussing topics such as relationships, family, men, celebrities, body language, fashion, pop music, and favorite hobbies will likely interest her. Women also like to think about how one topic might be related to another, especially when it might give insights on social situations or someone’s personality. A while back, there was an article in a magazine about “what his cell phone reveals about his character.” Asking a woman what she thinks a person’s items in his grocery cart reveals about his relationships with women might be an intriguing questions for an introspective woman.
Also, if she looks awkward or uncertain, change the topic like nothing happened. Women do this all the time as a way of diffusing the discomfort. Have a list of topics you can just bring up if she looks uneasy. You could make an observation about the place you are in, bring up something about your favorite food, or ask her a question about her outfit. The most important element is that you can easily flow from one topic to another. If she feels like you are being uncomfortable, then more than likely she will start to feel uncomfortable.
She will likely try to discover how much she can get away with. She might call you at two in the morning. She might show up at your work unannounced. She might call unexpectedly on Saturday night. Knowing what you want her to do regarding your time and privacy will be important. Communicating that to her in a firm manner, perhaps with a bit of humor, will be important. Backing it up by continued reminders to her will also be key. For example, if she shows up to your office unannounced with Chinese food, you might say to her, “This is spontaneous of you. I am glad you thought of me to do something so nice, but I thought I ordered a pizza. I don’t have time right now to have lunch with you because when I am at work. I need to work. If you want to meet for lunch in the future, please call me.” It is up to you if you want to tell her, “I usually don’t have time to have lunch at work, but just this once. In the future, we need to plan something.” In the moment, she may not like what you have to say, but in the long term she will respect it and feel attraction for you because of it.